As the weather starts to change, our wardrobes tend to follow. With crisp autumn air comes sweaters, coats, and scarves. In similar fashion, as we enter new phases of our lives, our wardrobe also tends to follow. We all have those phases we go through—whether it’s changing trends, evolving tastes, or experimenting with new fashion, each season of our life brings forth new style. That’s certainly been true for me. From my emo/punk looks in high school (it’s not a phase, Mom) and my artsy, eclectic college looks to my attempts at “normal” professionalism during my brief stint working for an attorney, my style has progressed to correspond to my season of life. Recently, I entered a brand new season of life: motherhood.
My husband and I adopted our baby girl this year, and, of course, the adjustment period has affected every aspect of our lives. One area I was surprised to find affected, though, was my sense of style. Personal style has always been something I’ve enjoyed and held close as a form of expression. I often describe my wardrobe as an odd mix of Iris Apfel, Wednesday Addams, and Twiggy. Since welcoming our daughter into our lives earlier this year, I have found the colors I wear to be brighter, the patterns more fun. I’ve also found that I care less about the overall look and more about, ‘Can I play in the floor in this?’ The most surprising aspect, though, is that I care even less than I did before about what people may think of what I’m wearing. I want my little girl to be brave and unapologetic, which has only increased my need to set that example.
This style issue is packed with stories that emphasize seasons. Our feature highlights the “perfect fall day,” accented with one-of-a-kind accessories. We also visit the new jewelry retailer, Bijou, to learn about the new season in owner Laurel Parham’s life. Even our book club recommendation considers changes associated with seasons.
I couldn’t be more excited to enter this new season of life and style. I’ve read the cautionary tales of mothers losing a bit of themselves in the process of finding their footing in motherhood. I’ve made a conscious effort stay true to myself while evolving to fit my new normal. Of course, getting to dress my daughter has been fun, but beyond that, I’m excited to see her develop her own opinions, make her own choices, and express herself how she wants. We’ll be supporting her and cheering her on in every season.
